Servant Reciprocity

In life one comes across master teachers on rare, lucky days. Today was such a day. There is a Master Teacher instructing a bunch of physicians and hospital administrators on leadership to "seed our institution with those who can lead change." She is indeed gifted with intellect, clear understanding of adult education, knowledge and quick wit. She has unveiled numerous secrets that will make a difference in the lives of untold numbers as these physicians and administrators direct the care of the children who come to us in need. 

Using vocabulary carefully and clearly many concepts have become living principals through her efforts. The topic that settled on the discussion about which there was not time to digest was the topic of Reciprocity. A leader (or any individual for that matter) must manage the Reciprocity in their lives. A favor is asked and granted. The favor has created a sort of debt. If the debt grows - (several favors) - and is never repaid with a favor or several, then an imbalance is present that interferes with a stellar relationship. Eventually the imbalance will wreck the relationship and perhaps generate resentment.

However, the question arises about the concept of servant leadership - a leader whose efforts are dedicated to serve those being led. This is concentrated energy to elevate the followers' position, increase their wealth or status, or get them some other gain - without expectation of a repayment or tit for tat. By pursuing such ideals and actions the leader demonstrates the benefit of putting other's interest before the leader's. Great things are accomplished.

The master teacher does not believe or find research that supports the existence of true servant leadership. Her contention is that while the leader does indeed improve the situation of those who follow, the leader must be gaining something. Perhaps it is a sense of worth, a promise of spiritual or eternal reward, or the loyalty and industry of the follower. 

So, does true charity exist? Does anyone (even Mother Teresa) give without regard to reward - either physical, emotional or spiritual? Does this sense of "balance" destroy the heart of benevolence? Did the Son of God sacrifice for His own gain - the worship and relationship with believers? Can any being truly serve for no reward at all? 

The Master Teacher is genius. We will think about this for quite a while, and it will change something in us. Hopefully it will make us closer to the Creator . . .
- it will.